Oh I pray for a day when women look & act again like women! Feminine, lady-like, proper when needed to be… women. Now, before all you feminists get your panties in a wad, just hear me out… I know I have to be careful how I word this blog post, so that I am not misunderstood.
I am all for women having rights, and do not believe we are any less than men at all! However, I do not believe that we should have to act just like men! God created man & woman differently on purpose. Guess what women – you were created to have children, and be a help-mate to man. Yeah, I know crushing to your feminist ego huh!!! HAHAHA Not that I want to be barefoot & pregnant and ordered around by a man. NOT! However, I do strongly believe that a man has his place, and a woman has hers. This pertains to a lot of areas in life: relationships, church, work, and simply life.
Let me explain…
In life, far too many women are so obsessed with “not being dependent on a man” because of heartbreaks, divorces, desires to be very independent, and so on. Unfortunately the majority of women swing the pendulum so far in the other direction that even men have forgotten how to be real men… because women try to push them out of the picture! LISTEN TO ME WOMEN!!!! It is okay – better yet, it should be expected still – to have a man open a door for you, strictly because you are a lady. Now, that would mean that you have to actually act like a lady!!!! (From Dictionary.com Lady – a woman who is refined, polite, and well-spoken. Yowza, do I mean that a girl should actually watch her mouth and not curse like a sailor… say please & thank you’s, and hello’s & good-bye’s to people… and such polite well-mannered things!? YES, as a matter of fact, I do! Think of that, a true lady. Tell me men, that wouldn’t be so bad now would it!? LOL
Oh, I am making myself laugh! 🙂
Prudish is not what I am referring to though. Lady does not mean not stylish or boring or not sexy either. Quite the contrary. Think of old Hollywood starlet’s of the “Golden-era” and their massive sex appeal! As far as attire: I’ll give you ladies one BIG clue into men that my mother taught me when I was a girl. If a man had 2 women standing next to each other; one stark naked and the other naked in a sheer gown, he would choose the woman in the sheer gown. Why? Many reasons: men love using their imagination, something to keep their mind going, a little challenge. Example: Wear a skirt to your knees with a side slit that goes up to your thigh instead of a tight mini skirt. Sex appeal doesn’t have to be lost. Besides, ladies…. a man’s imagination is ALWAYS better than reality! So, make him use it! And the age-old saying is a reality, men want a lady in public and a …… I’ll leave the rest for you to fill in. ha!
With that lead-in, I’ll move into women in relationships. Since I already hit on opening doors… I would like to rant about a couple other things. Ladies, do you know how many men I talk to that say they have stopped opening doors, and walking on the outside of the sidewalk (Yes men, there is an right and wrong side of a lady to walk on!!), etc. simply because they have too many women get mad/upset at them for doing it!! I am constantly blown away by this. Why on earth would you literally race a man to a door, just to make sure he cannot be polite and open it for you. Do you really have that much to prove!! Seriously! Oh don’t even get me started… I could go on & on… I’ve gone on long enough already.
Oh I know this rant of mine is a bit out-of-the-blue, and off track from my intro blog. I was told that’s what blogs are for though… and it’s my blog which gives me full control of the content! Yes, I have control issues, I’ll admit it openly. Shhh, I may try to deny it though, if it is brought up to me! LOL
…I am going to end this now, even though I find it a fun and favorite topic at times. In summary: Women… BE women! Allow men to be men! Femininity is more powerful than you think! Don’t believe me… try it. Prove me wrong!!! Lessons could become available!
p.s. Don’t worry ladies… I’ll talk to the men tomorrow!
For tonight, I bid you adieu.
~ Sonya… She Idealist.